Men and women do communicate differently and nature itself is responsible. Men communicate their thoughts while utilizing logic with sometimes problem-solving. Women communicate their thoughts while utilizing their highly tuned emotions. Men are direct communicators, while women are indirect communicators.
The biggest issue now when it comes to dating is who pays the bill? It is a question that shouldn’t be a question let alone an issue in the first place. Why? Well, it’s obvious who pays – it’s the person who asked. Dating hasn’t changed all that much! Read more!
Accept it or not, our appearance on the outside has just as much to say about us as an individual as the person we are on the inside. Being shallow simply has nothing to do with it. When you look at someone for the very first time you automatically form an opinion of how they appear to you. There are questions that your thoughts automatically answer: Read more!
Men are fundamentally the most sovereign sexual beings by nature, unmatched by any other species on the planet! That is until they fall in love! Wait, ladies, don’t get too excited yet! A man’s overall physical prowess knows no bounds, whether it’s in combat, sports, physical activities and especially when it comes to physical intimacy. Why was man designed in this way and for what purpose? It’s not what you think read more . . .
Mirror, Mirror, on the wall . . . who’s the fairest of them all?
I’ve never met a female yet who didn’t question her looks in some way or another, myself included! And I seriously doubt that I ever will! There’s no specific look, beauty look or look in general that makes much of a difference or has any importance. But being female is very important, so important that being graded by our looks from a 1 – 10 or even a 12 has its merits! That’s INSTINCTUAL MERITS I’m referring to! Puzzled? Read more!
Whenever I read an article, a blog post or a book that someone wrote about relationships or dating these phrases pop up . . .
“I want you but I don’t need you”
“I want a man but I don’t need a man”
“She needs to want me, not need me”
“In love, I want to be wanted but not needed”
They are becoming popular catchphrases that seriously make no sense! Why? Read More!
As a love science mentor, I often had interesting and quite informative conversations with single men. One of the biggest issues that they all seem to share is dating what they refer to as a . . . desperate woman. The conversation would go something like this . . . Read more!
As the lyrics go from the song of the famous musical, Fiddler on the Roof . . .
“Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match. Find me a find, catch me a catch!
Matchmaker, matchmaker look through your book and make me a perfect match!”
I know many matchmakers. I have recommended them to clients, not only in Denver but also coast to coast. I believe matchmaking experts are a far better choice when seeking a long-term partner than dating sites, dating apps or even social media sites! Why? Read more!
Most people would agree that sincerity in a person, is in fact, one of the most important qualities in a potential mate. When you first begin getting to know someone, certainly there are imperfect things about them that you soon discover. Knowing about these imperfections helps you when left with deciding if indeed this person is truly genuine and worth your time and effort. Read more!
Around Easter time in 2017, I went on a well-needed vacation to an all-inclusive resort in Jamaica. It is one of the most luxurious resorts in the Caribean. There were more American guests there than any other nationality. I was there for two weeks. But it only took me two days to discover that the majority of Americans staying at that resort were overweight. Not just a few pounds overweight, mind you, but severely obese. Read more!
Are we living in an era of Male Bashing simply because women now consider themselves equal to men or is it because women are disappointed in how men behave today? I hear it regularly when women discuss men, whether in a group setting or in a one-on-one: “Guys are pricks! “Men are selfish bastards!” “They’re all a bunch of liars and cheats!” “They’re nothing but sex maniacs!” and so forth and so on. It is so disheartening to hear since I know many wonderful single men. Read more!
Let’s face it, today’s women have it all, can do it all, and single-handedly handle it all. This is why the 21st-century single lady doesn’t need a man, and the phrase itself has become one of the most spoken phrases amongst single women. To be sure, men and women are still getting engaged and getting married and non-married couples are living together in an exclusive relationship more than ever before. So why do single women everywhere proclaim on a relentless basis that they don’t need a man? Read more!
An unhappy woman makes for a miserable girlfriend! What guy, doesn’t know that? Men, in general, are instinctually as well as instantly attracted to a well-balanced, well-rounded, happy and positive female. A bad attitude regardless of why it exists makes any woman unattractive to the opposite sex. With that said, let’s take a look at all the things that a bad attitude produces . . . Read more!
Oh, my god! You didn’t know or weren’t even aware that you were doing the instant date thing? Maybe it’s because you don’t understand just how an instant date works? First, let me tell you that it can be worse than blind dating. The only thing you are blind to would be the fact that you are doing it in the first place. So just how does it happen? Glad you asked! Read more!
I’ve heard and read a million times, even from men who are dating and relationship experts, about women who are needy and clingy. Well, I’m here to enlighten you once and for all: there is no such female! It is not in a woman’s nature to be either needy or clingy. They are by nature bonders, period! Allow me to elaborate further. Read more!
Realistically speaking, men appreciate and value more highly what they earn, not what always comes easy or in abundance. Hence, the single man’s dilemma: which is better, the high-value woman or the low-value woman? Allow me to elaborate, which I’m so itching to do. Read more!
The loss of a partner whether by divorce, death or a breakup can be more devastating for a man than for a woman. One important reason is that men don’t feel comfortable sitting around experiencing their feelings; they would rather find ways to suppress their emotional pain than to deal with it directly. Men are also natural problem solvers, so when they lose a partner they usually rush right back into another relationship. Problem solved! Read more!
If there is one thing that single men confide in me that is most important to them in a long-term partner, it is that she possesses a set of unique traits. Well, let’s face it, they are the ones that have to decide if they want to put-a-ring-on-it! Right? So to give you an idea of what they are talking about here is a list of unique traits: Read more!
I have so many single women that contact me 24/7 for all kinds of relationship and dating problems. As a dating consultant for women, I’ve heard every kind of heart-wrenching disappointment imaginable. But I must say, the one where more women sooner than later find themselves at a loss, it is the Friends with Benefits situation. It is a situationship that benefits no woman, period! Read more!
Living as a single person today is an accepted lifestyle. It’s also a different culture with its own set of rules and conditions. Women can have and do it all these days, and that includes choices that her female ancestors never had. One such choice is to dress as she pleases and how she pleases. For today’s single female, this can be a problem. Why? Read more!