There’s an old saying, YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR! Here’s another, QUALITY OVER QUANTITY! And another, VALUE OVER THE DOLLAR!
Realistically speaking, men appreciate and value more highly what they earn, not what always comes easy or in abundance. Hence, the single man’s dilemma: which is better, the high-value woman or the low-value woman? Allow me to elaborate, which I’m so itching to do.
Let’s first look at the high-value woman who naturally expects to be treated like a lady. When you first meet her, she will waste no time in conveying that she is an honest woman and expects to be treated as such. She will be polite and easy to chat with, but not compliant. This woman will even try to challenge you in conversation to see how you react.
On a date, she prefers to be wined and dined at an elegant fine dining restaurant. She expects to be romanced! Seated ladylike in a figure flattering dress across the candlelit table, she will expect you to order for her a succulent prime aged filet mignon cooked to perfection and an excellent glass of a rich, smooth, red Cabernet Sauvignon.
While pleasantly dining in a quiet and serene atmosphere, she prefers interesting, intelligent conversation over discussions of either one’s personal baggage. If you decide not to call her for another date right away, no problem, she has other male admirers asking her out. Trust me, she won’t be sitting at home anxiously waiting for your call. This woman is anything, but desperate. She doesn’t play hard to get. She is hard to get!
Make no mistake, gentlemen, this is a woman who knows her worth, is very comfortable in her own skin and is self-assured in every way. She exudes femininity and dresses to please herself, not other women. This lady fully enjoys being a woman! A little peek of cleavage and some legs and she’s in her glory!
She takes great care of her health and appearance and watches her carbs and sugar intake. This woman understands the importance of health and age management. A lot of exercising and a once-a-month trip to the salon or spa and she looks and feels her best!
Integrity is her middle name, and she is an all-around well-balanced, happy person. Yes, it will take some time, money, and effort to win her over, but look at the return on your investment. This woman will enrich your life! That’s certainly worth an expensive steak and an excellent glass of wine!
Now let’s look at the low-value woman who could care less where you dine her as long as you feed her something. No romance or trying to impress her is necessary. When you first meet, she will be timid, wondering why you are paying any attention to her at all. If she likes you and finds herself attracted to you, she will be eager to be compliant and make herself readily available to you.
On a date, you can take her to a fast food place or pizza and beer at her house or yours. She’s up for a family type restaurant where it’s a menu of cheap eats! While dining amongst noisy kids and clanking plates she will only care to discuss her personal baggage and will want to hear all about yours. Oh yes, she caught her husband with another woman. Who knew?
This woman truly believes she has no worth, is not at all comfortable in her own skin, nor is she self-assured. This woman wouldn’t think to take care of her health or appearance. She eats anything and everything and most likely is a diabetic or will be one someday. As for exercise, she doesn’t have the time nor inclination because she is most likely lazy.
She is afraid to exude her femininity for fear she isn’t pretty or attractive enough. She prefers to dress in pants and a top that won’t show any cleavage. If she has a nice figure, trust me, she won’t display it! She’s certainly a woman, but never comfortable showing it.
If you don’t call her for another date the following week, she will call you and beg you to see her again. If you make any excuse as to why you can’t see her soon, she will waste no time in telling you off and in unladylike, nasty language.
She is used to being treated with disrespect and is an unbalanced, all-around unhappy, miserable person. It will take very little time, money, and effort to win her over. Not much of an investment is required. This woman will make your life miserable. Now I’d say that’s certainly worth a pizza and beer!
Even though this is mainly a generalized view, you can understand the significant difference in the high & low-value dilemma all single men share. Then again, if a man is not looking for a long-term partner, he certainly knows which type of woman he shouldn’t waste his time on. A man can usually tell right away if a woman is easy or not.
Yet, at times a man can get confused. Because like a slow quarter is better than a fast buck, most men still question why any woman would want to be so hard to get. Can you believe such a question comes from the very sex that gave us our universal value system in the first place? Now I hope I helped clear the air and yes, my high-value itch has been well scratched!!!