An unhappy woman makes for a miserable girlfriend! What guy, doesn’t know that? Men, in general, are instinctually as well as instantly attracted to a well-balanced, well-rounded, happy and positive female. A bad attitude regardless of why it exists makes any woman unattractive to the opposite sex. With that said, let’s take a look at all the things that a bad attitude produces:
- Male bashing
- Bitchy behavior
- Miserable to be around
- Hard to like and get along with
- Heavy drinking
- Over eating
- Sloppy appearance
Unhappy women make unsuitable girlfriends, period! Whatever reason there is for maintaining a bad attitude especially about men should be addressed before you begin to start dating again. If you are still feeling hurt and unappreciated from your last relationship that didn’t end well, I suggest you take the time to heal emotionally from it than continue to carry all the misery and pain while seeking a new partner.
Men can recognize right away if you have a bad attitude, especially about them. It makes them uncomfortable and so they would rather distance themselves from you than take the time to socialize with you. You are simply being your own worst enemy. Yet, the more a man refuses to give you his time and attention the more angry and upset you become. Then the male bashing begins.
Attitude is everything! Dating will largely be a reflection of your attitude. You need to change your outlook even if it means getting professional help. What you can do until your broken heart is mended is get busy not only work-wise but in your personal life. Here are a few suggestions to help you eradicate the bad attitude:
- Get into outdoor activities
- Do volunteer work
- Local Charities
- Helping the elderly
- Animal Shelters
- Spend more time on your favorite hobbies
- Read biographies of famous people
Do whatever you can to keep yourself busy. Keep yourself occupied with so many other things to the effect of not having any negative thoughts and feelings that will make your bad attitude persist. Before you know it you will start to feel more positive about yourself and life in general.
When you do, I’m sure some great guy will be more than eager to take the time to get to know you because you’ve got a great attitude! Because a happy woman makes for a great girlfriend! Not to mention a perfect wife!