You may think that there is more to a woman than what meets a man’s eyes, but that’s not what NATURE thinks!
Very few dating and relationship experts actually care about tackling this particular subject. Why? Well, for one thing, it is a very touchy one and often is met with considerable controversy. But for me, as an expert who teaches in the field of science that is behind human love, it is a necessity.
Accept it or not, our appearance on the outside has just as much to say about us as an individual as the person we are on the inside. Being shallow simply has nothing to do with it. When you look at someone for the very first time you automatically form an opinion of how they appear to you. There are questions that your thoughts automatically answer:
- Yes, this person is good-looking!
- I can see this person takes good care of their health and well-being!
- This is a well-groomed person!
- This individual takes pride in their appearance!
- This person is plain looking!
- This person is not healthy and is lazy about their well-being!
- This person is a sloppy dresser!
- This person could care less about their appearance!
Then the oh so popular, universal sayings arise: LOOKS AREN’T EVERYTHING and LOVE IS BLIND. Want a bet?!
As human beings, a very big part of our innate nature is to seek out what first attracts us. Nature created opposites for a very good reason: ATTRACTION! A woman that takes care of her health and appearance is much more attractive to a man than a woman that doesn’t.
There’s an old saying: “One man’s eye for beauty is another man’s eyesore”. Yet a woman who takes care of her physical well-being and appearance attracts any and all men!
It’s true that there is more to a woman than what meets a man’s eyes. But if the outer package isn’t so great, why bother getting to know the inner package?
What, you think there is a prize inside like in a box of cracker jacks? Oh, there’s a prize alright! Women who don’t take care of their overall health and appearance often have issues from deep-seated insecurities to downright acute laziness.
Of course, no one is perfect and we all have some insecurities about ourselves from time to time. But, whether you like it or not, attraction comes before anything else.
Nature gave the human female a curvy body, soft skin and silky hair, gleaming eyes and blushing cheeks with pinkish lips to make the human male hunger for her body and a kiss. Nature could care less if she sacrifices her personal time to do charity work or is the most honest, intelligent and kind-hearted female on the face of the earth. Nature is at work to encourage procreation not present a humanitarian award!
Part of the misconception about outer beauty comes from witnessing all around us and everywhere we go, couples who have been together for a while who have lost interest in taking care of their physical being and how they appear to their partner. They no longer feel a need to make an effort to be attractive to their partner since they have been in a loving and lasting relationship for so long. This in itself, perpetuates the belief that physical good health and a well-groomed appearance does not actually matter. It is sad but is none-the-less a fact.
There’s a reason why shops have eye-catching window displays, architects design impressive buildings with inviting decorative doors and beauty, itself, is universally known as an art form to be looked at and admired. The reason is simple, the need for attraction! Attraction is a very important part of human nature and human love.