I am sad that the Miss America Pageant Organization is changing the tradition of judging beauty. It’s true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Though, physical beauty, itself, is much more equated with a healthy body and lifestyle. Miss America 2013, Mallory Hagan, in an interview . . . read the full article!
Just what is it about a woman that makes a guy classify her as high-maintenance? Why do men believe she’s a she-devil or worse? Why do women try their best, not to be labeled as one? Yet, more to the point – is there really such a female or is she merely a figment of the male’ imagination?
The biggest issue now when it comes to dating is who pays the bill? It is a question that shouldn’t be a question let alone an issue in the first place. Why? Well, it’s obvious who pays – read the full article!
Accept it or not, our appearance on the outside has just as much to say about us as an individual as the person we are on the inside. Being shallow simply has nothing to do with it. When you look at someone for the very first time, you automatically form an opinion of how they appear to you. There are questions that your thoughts automatically answer: read the full article
Men are fundamentally the most sovereign sexual beings by nature, unmatched by any other species on the planet! That is until they fall in love! Wait, ladies, don’t get too excited yet! A man’s overall physical prowess knows no bounds, whether it’s in combat, sports, physical activities and especially when it comes to physical intimacy. Why was man designed in this way and for what purpose? It’s not what you think! Read the full article.
Mirror, Mirror, on the wall . . . who’s the fairest of them all?
I’ve never met a female yet who didn’t question her looks in some way or another, myself included! And I seriously doubt that I ever will! There’s no specific look, beauty look or look in general that makes much of a difference or has any importance. But being female is very important, so important that being graded by our looks from a 1 – 10 or even a 12 has its merits! That’s INSTINCTUAL MERITS I’m referring to! Puzzled? Read the full article.
Whenever I read an article, a blog post or a book that someone wrote about relationships or dating these phrases pop up . . .
“I want you, but I don’t need you.”
“I want a man, but I don’t need a man.”
“She needs to want me, not need me.”
“In love, I want to be wanted but not needed.”
They are becoming famous catchphrases that seriously make no sense! Why? Read the full article.
As a love science mentor, I often had interesting and quite informative conversations with single men. One of the biggest issues that they all seem to share is dating what they refer to as a . . . desperate woman. The conversation would go something like this . . . Read the full article.
As the lyrics go from the song of the famous musical, Fiddler on the Roof . . .
“Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match. Find me a find, catch me a catch!
Matchmaker, matchmaker look through your book and make me a perfect match!”
I know many matchmakers. I have recommended them to clients, not only in Denver but also coast to coast. I believe matchmaking experts are a far better choice when seeking a long-term partner than dating sites, dating apps or even social media sites! Why? Read the full article.
Most people would agree that sincerity in a person, is in fact, an admiral in a potential mate. When you first begin getting to know someone, indeed there are imperfect things about them that you soon discover. Knowing about these imperfections helps you when left with deciding if indeed this person is genuinely worth your time and effort. Read the full article.
Around Easter time in 2017, I went on a well-needed vacation to an all-inclusive resort in Jamaica. It is one of the most luxurious resorts in the Caribbean. There were more American guests there than any other nationality. I was there for two weeks. But it only took me two days to discover that the majority of Americans staying at that resort were overweight. Not just a few pounds overweight, mind you, but severely obese. Read the full article.
Are we living in an era of Male Bashing simply because women now consider themselves equal to men or is it because women are disappointed in how men behave today? I hear it regularly when women discuss men, whether in a group setting or in a one-on-one: “Guys are pricks! “Men are selfish bastards!” “They’re all a bunch of liars and cheats!” “They’re nothing but sex maniacs!” and so forth and so on. It is so disheartening to hear since I know many great single men. Read the full article.
Let’s face it, today’s women have it all, can do it all, and single-handedly handle it all. This is why the 21st-century single lady doesn’t need a man, and the phrase itself has become one of the most spoken phrases amongst single women. To be sure, men and women are still getting engaged and getting married, and non-married couples are living together in an exclusive relationship more than ever before. So why do single women everywhere proclaim on a relentless basis that they don’t need a man? Read the full article.
An unhappy woman makes for a miserable girlfriend! What guy, doesn’t know that? Men, in general, are instinctually as well as instantly attracted to a well-balanced, well-rounded, happy and confident female. A lousy attitude regardless of why it exists makes any woman unattractive to the opposite sex. With that said, let’s take a look at all the things that a bad attitude produces . . . Read the full article.
Oh, my god! You didn’t know or weren’t even aware that you were doing the instant date thing? Maybe it’s because you don’t understand just how an instant date works? First, let me tell you that it can be worse than blind dating. The only thing you are blind to would be the fact that you are doing it in the first place. So just how does it happen? Glad you asked! Read the full article.
I’ve heard and read a million times, even from men who are dating and relationship experts, about women who are needy and clingy. Well, I’m here to enlighten you once and for all: there is no such female! It is not in a woman’s nature to be either needy or clingy. They are by nature bonders, period! Allow me to elaborate further. Read the full article.
Realistically speaking, men appreciate and value more highly what they earn, not what always comes easy or in abundance. Hence, the single man’s dilemma: which is better, the high-value woman or the low-value woman? Allow me to elaborate, which I’m so itching to do. Read the full article!
The loss of a partner whether by divorce, death or a breakup can be more devastating for a man than for a woman. One important reason is that men don’t feel comfortable sitting around experiencing their feelings; they would rather find ways to suppress their emotional pain than to deal with it directly. Men are also natural problem solvers, so when they lose a partner they usually rush right back into another relationship. Problem solved! Sorry, not true! Why? Read the full article!
If there is one thing that single men confide in me that is most important to them in a long-term partner, it is that she possesses a set of unique traits. Well, let’s face it, they are the ones that have to decide if they want to put-a-ring-on-it! Right? So to give you an idea of what they are talking about here is a list of unique traits . . . Read the full article!
I had so many single women who were contacting me 24/7 for all kinds of relationship and dating problems when I was a dating consultant. I’ve heard every sort of heart-wrenching disappointment imaginable. But I must say, the one where more women sooner than later found themselves at a loss, it was the Friends with Benefits situation. It is a situationship that benefits no woman, period! Why? Read the full article!
Living as a single person today is an accepted lifestyle. It’s also a different culture with its own set of rules and conditions. Women can have and do it all these days, and that includes choices that her female ancestors never had. One such choice is to dress as she pleases and how she pleases. For today’s single female, this can be a problem. Why? Read the full article!