What is this . . . “I want you but I don’t NEED you” Ridiculousness?



Whenever I read an article, a blog post or a book that someone wrote about relationships or dating these phrases pop up . . .

“I want you, but I don’t need you.”

“I want a man, but I don’t need a man.”

“She needs to want me, not need me.”

“In love, I want to be wanted but not needed.”

They are becoming famous catchphrases that seriously make no sense! Why? Read the full article.


Why Men Worry if they are Dating a Desperate Woman!


As a love science mentor, I often had interesting and quite informative conversations with single men. One of the biggest issues that they all seem to share is dating what they refer to as a . . . desperate woman. The conversation would go something like this . . . Read the full article.


Why Single Women have a List of what they want in a Life-Partner and what Matchmakers can do about it!


As the lyrics go from the song of the famous musical, Fiddler on the Roof . . .

“Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match. Find me a find, catch me a catch!

Matchmaker, matchmaker look through your book and make me a perfect match!”

I know many matchmakers. I have recommended them to clients, not only in Denver but also coast to coast. I believe matchmaking experts are a far better choice when seeking a long-term partner than dating sites, dating apps or even social media sites!  Why?  Read the full article.


Is Honesty the Best Policy in the Beginning of a Relationship?



Most people would agree that sincerity in a person, is in fact, an admiral in a potential mate. When you first begin getting to know someone, indeed there are imperfect things about them that you soon discover. Knowing about these imperfections helps you when left with deciding if indeed this person is genuinely worth your time and effort.  Read the full article.


A Bad Attitude is Unattractive to Men!



An unhappy woman makes for a miserable girlfriend! What guy, doesn’t know that? Men, in general, are instinctually as well as instantly attracted to a well-balanced, well-rounded, happy and confident female. A lousy attitude regardless of why it exists makes any woman unattractive to the opposite sex. With that said, let’s take a look at all the things that a bad attitude produces . . . Read the full article.


There is no such thing as a Needy & Clingy Woman!

I’ve heard and read a million times, even from men who are dating and relationship experts, about women who are needy and clingy. Well, I’m here to enlighten you once and for all: there is no such female! It is not in a woman’s nature to be either needy or clingy. They are by nature bonders, period! Allow me to elaborate further.  Read the full article.


A Man on the Rebound!

The loss of a partner whether by divorce, death or a breakup can be more devastating for a man than for a woman. One important reason is that men don’t feel comfortable sitting around experiencing their feelings; they would rather find ways to suppress their emotional pain than to deal with it directly.  Men are also natural problem solvers, so when they lose a partner they usually rush right back into another relationship. Problem solved! Sorry, not true! Why? Read the full article!


Why Men & Women Communicate Differently!


Men and women do communicate differently. Men communicate their thoughts while utilizing logic with sometimes problem-solving. Women communicate their thoughts while utilizing their highly tuned emotions. Men are direct communicators, while women are indirect communicators. Why is there a difference?  Read the full article!